I use a face wash, actually, body wash as I now use it instead of soap. It is sold online only at Walmart. It is called Body Essence Tea Tree Oil Ultra-Moisturizing Body Wash. It is a 24 Oz pump & cost $3.74. I use Nivea for dry skin on my face. I can’t use coconut oil or straight tea tree oil. Castor oil is also good. You can buy castor oil in a roll on that looks like deodorant - you don’t have to buy that thick stuff in the bottle. Heritage Store, Castor Oil Roll-On, 3 fl oz (90 ml) is about $4-5. You might be able to find it cheaper. You can mix it - baby oil & vaseline don’t affect my skin negatively. I also don’t think Pond’s cold cream does either. I’m going to buy a jar of that. I use Head & Shoulders shampoo. Hair products don’t seem to bother my scalp. I only have a severe problem when I am under stress & I lay under a red & blue light. These lights are expensive, but I bought a red & blue bulb from Amazon for $40 & put it in a desk lamp. I lay under that for 5 minutes & if I have redness, it goes away. Be sure you don’t get a plant grow bulb - they are different, but they look the same & are a lot cheaper.
Everyone has to find their own cures as I’ve read a lot about this & everyone is unique.